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Haters
Jul 14, 2013 23:42:57 GMT
Post by brookprest on Jul 14, 2013 23:42:57 GMT
Can we talk about how to deal with Haters for a min?
I just got this ask on tumblr and i am looking for some input.
Help me out?
This is the anon ask "hart is a stupid fucking dyke and you're a fat waste of shit; have you ever considered just fuckin killing yourself you retarded pasty bitch"
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Haters
Jul 14, 2013 23:45:56 GMT
Post by rehabzombies on Jul 14, 2013 23:45:56 GMT
Best thing to do is delete them and look away and come here. They are close minded idiots who obviously taking being anon as an excuse to be rude to others.
I'd also suggest taking anon off for a while, some people may not like it but people will understand if it is to try people to stop sending hate. I have never had to deal with haters and I am so sorry that you do. Please just try at least not take them to heart.
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Haters
Jul 14, 2013 23:49:14 GMT
Post by nahomy101 on Jul 14, 2013 23:49:14 GMT
Just ignore them or report them. Don't feed the trolls/haters. They want you to get mad and feel bad about yourself.
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Post by brookprest on Jul 14, 2013 23:54:57 GMT
i guess im pretty thankful for a community full of so much love!
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Post by weekoony on Jul 14, 2013 23:56:05 GMT
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Haters
Jul 14, 2013 23:57:58 GMT
Post by brookprest on Jul 14, 2013 23:57:58 GMT
added those gifs to my response, lol thank you |
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Haters
Jul 15, 2013 0:01:29 GMT
Post by weekoony on Jul 15, 2013 0:01:29 GMT
added those gifs to my response, lol thank you You are very welcome  When people send you hate, the best thing you can do is confuse them by responding with love because there is nothing better than confusing a troll so much that they have no come back. |
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Haters
Jul 15, 2013 0:05:58 GMT
Post by brookprest on Jul 15, 2013 0:05:58 GMT
added those gifs to my response, lol thank you You are very welcome When people send you hate, the best thing you can do is confuse them by responding with love because there is nothing better than confusing a troll so much that they have no come back. Yeah thats generally how i do it |
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Haters
Jul 15, 2013 4:07:22 GMT
Post by jclahoot on Jul 15, 2013 4:07:22 GMT
There is a way to find out who your anons are (block them then checking your block list) so you could screencap the whole thing and post it and they'll leave pretty fast! |
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rainbowmutt
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Post by rainbowmutt on Jul 15, 2013 5:35:45 GMT
Hahahaha, I'm sorry, there are haters in the Harto fandom? We are literally a fandom of love and bad jokes, who would waste their energy abusing THAT? XD No, but seriously, don't take it to heart. All they want is a reaction. I find the best responses are with kindness, wit, logic or not at all. Maybe we should be feeling proud that we're big enough to start getting hate?  |
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Haters
Jul 15, 2013 5:38:29 GMT
Post by brookprest on Jul 15, 2013 5:38:29 GMT
Hahahaha, I'm sorry, there are haters in the Harto fandom? We are literally a fandom of love and bad jokes, who would waste their energy abusing THAT? XD No, but seriously, don't take it to heart. All they want is a reaction. I find the best responses are with kindness, wit, logic or not at all. Maybe we should be feeling proud that we're big enough to start getting hate? Well, not quite in the fandom, but more towards me. They sent them to my personal tumblr, and attacked me personally. However, the hartosexuals helped me deal with it! |
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rainbowmutt
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Haters
Jul 15, 2013 6:15:33 GMT
Post by rainbowmutt on Jul 15, 2013 6:15:33 GMT
Hahahaha, I'm sorry, there are haters in the Harto fandom? We are literally a fandom of love and bad jokes, who would waste their energy abusing THAT? XD No, but seriously, don't take it to heart. All they want is a reaction. I find the best responses are with kindness, wit, logic or not at all. Maybe we should be feeling proud that we're big enough to start getting hate? Well, not quite in the fandom, but more towards me. They sent them to my personal tumblr, and attacked me personally. However, the hartosexuals helped me deal with it! Okay. Keep in mind it's the same deal, they're just looking for a reaction and a cheap laugh. I know personally that you could get 100 good comments and one bad, and that bad one will stick with you. Remember when someone posts a good comment, it means that they really did look at the content, enjoy it and think about it enough to comment. Sometimes it can take a lot to write out a message saying just that. But it takes absolutely no effort at all to send hate. They pick out the most basic hurtful thing they can say just so they can watch and laugh at the drama. Trolling like that requires minumum logic, understanding and they are just generally apathetic. They're indifferent, they don't actually care. Don't show them the care that they don't deserve. It may have felt like a personal attack, but it was impersonal to them. The internet is what you make of it. You'll encounter every kind of thing and personality. The trick is filtering it down. Remind yourself to listen to the feedback with actual thought I love your blog btw! It was the first Harto one I followed! |
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Post by ladysarah on Jul 15, 2013 6:28:40 GMT
I had a hate anon mail just couple days ago! I know what it feels but that what I did is delete the message and I had to turn anon off. I know some people are disappointed not able to send me through anon but I feel it is necessary for just couple of weeks. You know what it helps me to deal with my hurt feeling: I think about Hannah and Grace, I am sure they got tons of hate but it is strange enough that they make me feel strong because look how far they are now! Remember, The trollers are just looking for starting drama with you, well because they don't have better things to do so ignore them is possible be the most safest way to go. You are beautiful no what the people say mean thing about you! Hope this helps! |
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Post by pyrowolf2point0 on Jul 17, 2013 21:17:27 GMT
They literally just saw that you enjoyed something so they decided to bash it in an effort to make you less happy. It's stupid and immature and not something you should ever waste your energy paying attention to. Just look at it as spam and move on to the important people who don't constantly have shit spewing from their stupid mouths.
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Post by kolo on Jul 17, 2013 21:19:50 GMT
This is why I turned anon off on Tumblr, I used to get the stupidest hate messages that were obviously just attempts to upset me. Some people are arseholes and just want to get a reaction out of you by any means possible. The best thing to do is to just ignore it, or even better turn anon messaging off |
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When people send you hate, the best thing you can do is confuse them by responding with love because there is nothing better than confusing a troll so much that they have no come back.
